As your child grows, they will become more independent. You won’t just see this phase during their teenage years when they want to leave the house and go off with their friends. You will actually see growing independence even at the toddler stage, and even the infant stage, where they’ll try to start doing more things on their own. Definitely encourage this independent behavior while maintaining safety as much as you can. You certainly don’t want your child to do things that are unreasonably dangerous for their age. always keep a watchful eye, which is easier said than done.

Out toddler is continuing to become more independent, and as a result, learning things like problem solving. For instance, if he can’t reach something, like a light switch or the top of a counter, he will grab something he can stand on and move it over to give him some height. We certainly have become more mindful of what we leave on the counter or table. When my son wants to go outside or to the basement, we tell him to get his shoes first, and he does it. He can even put them on, with a little bit of help.

You may notice your young child slowly develop independent behavior and certainly encourage it, because it’s great for them in many ways. So, when you see them using utensils for the first time, holding their milk bottle, grabbing their shoes, or anything else that shows growth, remember to recognize these achievements and give positive reinforcement.