I’ve written about this topic sparingly in other posts, but I just want to reiterate the importance of bonding with a baby and how crucial it is for dads too, and not just moms. Bond with your baby even before it it born. Get close to your partner’s stomach and speak to the baby. Be at your partners side and support them every chance you get. Be in the delivery room during labor. Once your baby is born, hold them to your chest, cuddle them, change diapers, help with bathing, nap with them, feed them, tell them you love them, and just do whatever you can to gain closeness with the baby. Always be a present daddy and avoid distractions.

Quality time with the baby is important and should start as soon as possible. Your baby will bond with you and develop a special relationship. If you are able to be a part of the special milestones, like turning, crawling, walking and talking, that is even better.