This goes out to all of the people out there who love doing things on their own. They hate asking for help because it may make them look weak. I am here to tell you that this is not the case. Now that you have a new little person entering your life, you are not just responsible for yourself, or your partner. There is a new little life that will require most of your attention and care. They will rely on you completely for several years.

That being said, you will need help. If you have supportive friends, family, neighbors, etc., who are willing to step up and be there for you, then definitely take advantage of it. If they offer to bring you food, take it. If they offer to babysit, let them. If they want to help with errands, give them a list. People genuinely enjoy helping others. It makes them feel good and it takes some of the burdens off of you. Everyone needs help and it does not make you weak to accept it. I am slowly learning this too.